Saturday, April 17, 2010

LOVE

People say that love is blind. You will never understand what it means until you experience it yourself. People have their own standard and image in mind on how their perfect partner suppose to look like. Good looking, pretty well off, etc. But once you fall for somebody, it doesn't matter how they look like. It's all really about how the person treats you. How they care for you, love you and accept you for who you are. Once you get comfortable, nothing else matters. Whatever standard you have in your mind disappears and you don't even care. You are happy and secure and loved, that's all that matters right?

People also say, "When you love someone, you'll have to be able to let him go." I hope that not many of you have to experience this. This is also a concept that you will never get until you experience it yourself. At the end, rather than fighting for yourself and make the matter worse, you are better off letting him go. After all, as long as he is happy right? If you love him, you only want what's best for him. As cliche as it may sound, sometimes it is true and it's the only choice that you have. When you love someone, truly love someone, you'll put him before you. Even if it means that you won't have him. I know how painful it is. Letting go. Completely let go. It's not easy to do, especially when all the memories stay in your heart and your head. It'll come out unannounced and make you miss him that much more. But slowly, we need to change our mindset, slowly, letting it go and store it in your good memories folder, like a great vacation. I know it's hard. I'm still struggling.

Only time will heal...only time will heal...prayerfully it'll be sooner rather than later...
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